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My Child is Tall. Let’s Discuss and Navigate.

Posted by Urban Infant Team on
My Child is Tall.  Let’s Discuss and Navigate.

Whether it was expected or not, some parents will find themselves raising a child who towers over their peers. While every child grows at their own pace, some children stand out – quite literally – from a very young age. If you notice your child is significantly taller than their classmates or siblings were at the same age, you might be raising a tall child.

There are both unique challenges and opportunities that come with parenting a tall child. It’s up to the people who love these not-so-little kids to find strategies to support their growth and development.

What makes a child "tall"?

A child is typically considered tall when they consistently measure above the 95th percentile on growth charts for their age and gender. This can happen for many reasons:

Genetics: If one or both parents are tall, it's likely their child will inherit this trait.
Early growth spurts: Some children experience growth spurts earlier than their peers.
Medical conditions: In some cases, excessive height can be a sign of an underlying health issues, but this is rare.

  

6 challenges tall children may face

1. Mismatched Expectations
One of the most common issues is the mismatch between physical appearance and emotional maturity. Adults and peers may expect your child to behave more maturely simply because they look older. This can lead to unrealistic expectations from others that cause frustration for your child.

2. Social and Emotional Impacts
In school settings, tall children might feel out of place among smaller classmates. This physical disparity can affect their self-esteem and social interactions. They may feel self-conscious or struggle to fit in with peers their own age.

3. School Placement Dilemmas
Parents of tall children often face difficult decisions regarding school placement, especially for those with late birthdays. The question of whether to start school early or hold back a year becomes more complicated when a child's physical size doesn't seem to match their age.

4. Practical Challenges
Finding age-appropriate clothing that fits properly can be a struggle. The usual hand-me-down system between siblings might also not work as effectively, which could lead to more spending on clothes.

5. Sports and Competition 
In competitive activities, there may unfortunately be suspicions of age fraud, adding an extra layer of stress to what should be enjoyable experiences. Coaches and other parents might question your child's age, which can be uncomfortable for both you and your child.

6 Body Image 
As they grow, tall children may become increasingly aware of their difference in height. This awareness can sometimes lead to body image concerns or feelings of awkwardness.

 

Let’s note several advantages of being tall!

Despite these challenges, being tall also comes with several advantages. It's important to highlight and celebrate these positive traits or your child.

Earlier Independence
Tall children might enjoy earlier access to amusement park rides or find it easier to use public facilities designed for older children. This can foster a sense of independence and confidence.

Sports Advantages
In many sports, height can be a significant advantage. Basketball, volleyball, swimming, and tennis are just a few examples where taller youngsters often excel. This could potentially open doors to exciting opportunities for children who enjoy these sports.

Positive Perceptions
Society often associates height with leadership and confidence. While it’s beneficial to teach children not to focus too much on physical attributes, this perception can sometimes work in your child's favor.

Standing Out Positively
While being different can be challenging, it can also be a source of positive attention and uniqueness. Many tall children learn to embrace their height as a desirable aspect of who they are.

Parenting tips for supporting your tall child

As a parent, you want to help your tall child navigate their world confidently. Here are a few ideas to help you and your child thrive.

Manage Expectations: Remind yourself and others that your child's emotional and cognitive development may not match their physical appearance. Advocate for age-appropriate treatment from teachers, coaches, and other adults in your child's life.

Encourage Age-Appropriate Behavior and Interests: Don't push your child into activities just because they're physically capable. Allow them to explore interests at their own pace.

Address Body Image and Self-Esteem: Help your child embrace their unique attributes and build confidence. Encourage positive self-talk and provide reassurance when needed.

Prepare Responses for Social Situations: Be ready to educate others about your child's age versus appearance politely. Help your child develop their own comfortable responses to questions or comments about their height.

Maintain a Positive Attitude: Your outlook will significantly influence how your child perceives their height. Celebrate their growth and focus on the advantages of being tall.

 
Raising a tall child may require some extra consideration and patience, but it's also an opportunity to nurture a unique individual. By understanding the challenges, embracing the benefits, and providing unwavering support, you can help your tall child grow into a confident and well-adjusted adult. With your love, guidance, and support, your tall child can reach great heights in all aspects of their life.

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